Vulnerable and Susceptible

Arent all of us vulnerable and susceptible at some point of time ? Vulnerable to a person, to a thing, to a situation. And then there is a shift of balance and instead of being the object of vulnerability, we can actually subject someone / something to be vulnerable. Isnt the shift in power an incredible feeling ?

Being concerned or beind the object of concern, which would you choose? Noramlly I am more concerned about stuff than others are.

How exactly do I get over from being susceptible? Cut down on free time and be occupied. Do I watch life through my window as it passes by or should I be concerned about it? To plan or not to plan is the question. I'd rather have a plan and it fails rather than not have a plan. Atleast for most part of my life.

For right now, lets take life as it comes to me.. with a plan to drag life by its reins.